Do you think of the two of you as a "family"? Or just a "couple" still? I told DH he was my first (priority) family the other day and it took a little explaining, LOL! I think it's taking some adjusting for him (and his family) to see me + him as a family with our own priorities and agenda, which his parents/grandparents/siblings/cousins/aunts/uncles/everybody else come in 2nd to.
Just wondered how you think about it... are you a "family" before there are kids?