How do your parents and in-laws react to and deal with your choice to wait or abstain from having kids?
My parents are completely accepting (my side of the family aren't really "kid" people). Nobody has once asked me when I'm going to make them a grandbaby or whatev.
My ILs... I'm not sure. They seem ok with it... Nod, smile, etc. But secretly, I think it upsets my MIL... And I think the rest of his family just think we're weird. Oh well.