Would you ever vacation separately?
A couple of DH's friends that we go out with weekly suggested that we all take a ski trip... the gal's mom lives in Colorado so we could stay with her. We set a date for a weekend in early March.
I just got a promotion and will have a new supervisor, new job, in a new facility... lots of new stuff. While my vacation days do carry over, there's still a chance that I won't be able to take off of work for a 4-day weekend.
It doesn't break my heart--I don't really love to ski and would mostly just be going because DH is and I don't want to be a party pooper. ;) However, if I find that I can't go, I do want my husband to go because he really wants to try it, and he never gets to take vacations.
So is that weird? It's one thing to take business trips alone, but this is a fun trip. Am I weird for wanting my husband to go even if I can't? It seems selfish to demand that he stay home with me if it turns out I can't go.
Of course this will all be moot if I am allowed to take the vacation days, but I was just curious what y'alls thoughts were on this.