How did you "know"??
Hi All, I am new to the boards but really trying to figure out if we should TTC, been married since 09 and I just turned 30..
I love babies, but I also love my freedom and no responsibility so my question is how did you know when the time was right? Did anyone feel hesitant because its such a life changer?
We know we want kids, but keep putting it off because Im scared of the change in lifestyle and of being pregnant in general..being sick , getting fat and not being able to lose the weight, phobic of needles and hospitals, all selfish reasons really.. I know, I'm a big baby..
Any thoughts that helped you decide it was time?