DH Reveal or Not...?
I'm really on the fence about this! Once we're actively trying, do I want him to know every time I'm going to POAS? Do I want him to watch with me to see the result? Or do I want to do that in private, then spring a reveal on him?
One friend got PG her second cycle off BCP so it was still "new" to them so he was there when the at home test showed BFP. Another friend tried for 13 cycles, so they were past that "excitement" and she started taking tests by herself and told him after she got her BFP.
I already ordered a "surviving pregnancy" book for DH that came hugely recommended, but he doesn't know yet (only because it might be a gift). I've been thinking if I did a reveal, I could include something like that as a part of it. But then I also think if I asked him, he'd probably say if I really thought I was PG to wake him up while I do my morning POAS.