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Things just don't seem to be going my way at all lately. DH and I have been married almost 2 years in April. We recently decided that we would start ttc (going on 2 months now) AFter getting engaged all our friends started getting engaged. It seemed like we were going to wedding after wedding. Now all our friends have had babies or are just finding out that they are pregnant. It just really stinks that its just not happening for us. I know God has a plan and knows when the best time is for us but I'm being impatient! DH hasn't seemed to be as into it as I have been lately. He works so hard at his job that he comes home exhausted ( he gets up at 3am to go to work) He is also in line for a promotion at work which I know is stressful for him. Hopefully we will find out in the next couple of weeks if he gets the promotion, that will mean longer hours at work but he will be making more than we make now combined. It also doesn't help that I will be at school 4 days a week during the day and on the other days I will be at work at a job I hate! : (. I'm just not sure where time to make a baby comes in. How does everyone else make it work around your schedules? I hate to sound all negative but I'm just looking for some positive thoughts and encouragement that everything will work out in the end!
Posted on January 2, 2013 at 1:06 pm
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Big Big Hugs Emily...It's totally normal to feel this way when things seem to be so easy for people around you while you're struggling trying to figure out how you'll make it work. But I'm sure DH & yourself will find a way.


I'm not a really good exemple right now cause since we've started TTC, I've been working from home so it's easier. But DH also got a new job in december, was stressed and worked crazy shift. But we made it work. We BD every other day instead of everyday around my fertil window. My mom told me that we she conceived me, she was working like crazy...and by crazy, I mean REALLY crazy (like she started at 5am everymorning, worked every day & night until 11pm-12pm). This month, they BD only once...and here I am! So don't loose all your hope. I'm sure you'll have your LO soon enough. xx

Posted on January 3, 2013 at 12:33 am
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Sending you big hugs Emily and I can hear you!!
I'm working 6 days a week in two jobs and DH also works long so we haven't really time to DTD or are both totally exhautest to do it :( So at the moment there isn't really a chance for us to concieve. Further to all this it look like that I'm out again this month because I had some spotting the last days so I think AF is coming :.(
We bought our first house last month and we will move in and renovate the first three weeks in Feb. So a lot of stress and no time again.
I really hope it will happen within the next two or three month because I'm also sooooooo impatient. We are also married for 2 years in May so I think it's now time for a little one :)

Posted on January 3, 2013 at 1:48 am
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Aww, I totally understand. I work 12 hour days and the last thing I feel like doing when I get home is baby makin'. Lol. It's difficult to fit it in sometimes, especially when it's such a narrow little window. But like Pascale said...it only takes once! Just keep trying whenever you get the chance, and I'm sure you'll have your BFP soon:)
Posted on January 3, 2013 at 2:12 am
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Thanks everyone! I feel a little better already knowing I'm not alone! Hoping everyone gets a BFP soon! : )
Posted on January 3, 2013 at 2:48 am
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