So upset, it's getting frustrating

So, I finally went to the doc after trying to conceive for a year without luck. I'm waiting till next Thursday to get the results on all my tests and my hubby's test. I am sorta nervous, but frustrate.

Everyone's getting pregnant...but this broke the final straw. My cousin who just got married in April is now 3 months pregnant. I am sooooo depressed. I can't even share this with anyone else because all I'll hear is.."it's okay" "It will come". I'm pretty tired and impatient. I'm starting to lose my faith...I'm not kidding, the Man Upstairs has let me down.

I feel like there's so much pressure from my family and myself to get pregnant. Life sucks. It's not fair.

Posted on October 8, 2013 at 4:10 pm
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I'm not going to tell you it will all be okay and it will happen, but I can tell you you are not alone. After trying gfor almost a year and a half and watching literally dozens of friends and family members get pregnant on accident or by "not preventing" I have given up completely. It isn't fair that so many people that don't even really want a baby get them but those of us that wait until we are actually ready and want children more than anything have problems. I just try to stay in the mind set of if it's meant to be it will happen but though we might always regret not having this amazing experience we will survive if it doesn't happen
Posted on October 9, 2013 at 12:32 am
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 I know exactly how you feel. After over a year of trying with no luck I just made a doctor's appointment too. I'm scared and worried, but ready to get some help. I know of all kinds of people that are pregnant without trying and who aren't in the best position to be. It seems totally unfair, and I constantly wonder if there's a reason we aren't blessed...if I've upset God somehow or I'm being punished. Because honestly that's what it feels like. But I just read the story of Hannah to my preschoolers last Sunday in church, about how she waited and waited for a baby, and eventually she got what she prayed for. Our lesson was on patience. I know it's so hard, but don't lose your faith. Stay strong and keep praying, and let God help you through this. If you really want children in your life it will happen one way or another. Hugs to you, sweetie!! 

Posted on October 9, 2013 at 5:43 am
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 Oh hon you are it alone! I don't know if you've read any if my updates but I am going through e exact same thing!! My DH just had surgery and we have been trying for 14 months. Stay positive! Let me know if you have any questions. 

Posted on October 9, 2013 at 12:00 pm
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All of you are SO strong and I admire that about every single one of you. I'm still in the early stages of trying but with each month it's getting harder to stay positive. so I hope you all know that I pray that I can find the strength you have all found in your journeys if it comes to it. 

Keep us updated. We're here to lean on!

Posted on October 10, 2013 at 9:21 am
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Thanks for letting me vent ladies. It's so hard to keep a fake smile or to try and hide your sadness with the family. I know I'm not alone on PW. But out here in the world, it's so hard. I'm anxious about meeting with the doc next week and just figuring out what's wrong and fixing it. I hope it's fixable. KWoodrn, I know life will continue even if I can't conceive.....But it's getting to the other side of acceptance that is difficult.

BIG HuG to all of you.  

Posted on October 10, 2013 at 9:15 pm

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