I can't stand you. You all ruined my wedding to your son/brother. I'm sick and tired of you blaming me for your family issues that were there long before I even met DH. Stop using me as your scapegoat. I have so much anxiety before any sort of family gathering that I can't eat/sleep for a week before, and am now on prescription anti-anxiety drugs. DH asks me to "have a few drinks" before going to each gathering...shame on him for not being able to stand up to you people, but shame on you for putting your son/brother in such a terrible position.
MIL and FIL, I hate the fact that you don't treat your children equally. It's so hard to watch you give your daughter everything she asks for and nothing to your son...you complain if he asks for anything. You make me feel so unwelcome and uncomfortable, yet you insist that I come to everything. It's a catch 22 for me....if I come you make me miserable, and if I don't then you still make me miserable. Stop with the constant emails and phone calls, especially since they should be directed toward your son.
SIL and SIL's husband, you are both insane. Grow up and take care of yourselves. Stop turning everything into a competition and being so manipulative. You are simply not nice people and never have anything nice to say to me, and are always tearing me down in front of others for no reason. DH and I have done so much for you, and you can't even humble yourselves to say a simple thank you.
I refuse to be bullied by all of you any more. You don't get to step all over me...I will always stand up for myself and will not be embarrassed to do so. If we can't figure out a way to make this relationship somewhat pleasant, I don't know if there can be a relationship at all.
**OK, I feel better....hopefully can get some sleep now**