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Enjoy, Relax and Have Fun!


Those months and months of planning are finally over and it's time to see if all that hard work paid off.  Your wedding day is finally here!  I know it's hard to relax on the absolute biggest day of your life - but it's your day and your job is done.  The only thing left to do for your wedding to be perfect is for you to get rid of those nerves and have fun!


I know you're nervous.  You've never spent so long planning a single event in your life and you don't want anything to go wrong.  Your biggest enemy now is your own stress!  Take a deep breath, look at the beautiful bride smiling back at you from the mirror, and remember that this is your day - if you're not relaxed enough to enjoy it, then why bother?!

Eat a light breakfast and keep some crackers on hand to battle nausea.  Gather your emotions and regain control with a quick meditation or a few minutes of stretching.  Most importantly, remember that the wedding date is here and you're about to walk down the aisle - the planning is over so it's time to have fun!


You may have woken up to a dreary downpour; your florist used the wrong shade of ribbon for your flowers; or maybe your photographer is lost somewhere between the ceremony site and the next 2 states.  Regardless of the obstacles that may be thrown at you, you're still getting married today and - as long as you keep smiling - the day will be amazing! 

Your wedding guests are coming to share in your joy and to be a part of this special moment in your life - not to critique your flowers or scrutinize your hair.  Forget the details now that your big day has finally arrived.  The planning is over, now it's time to enjoy the company of those you love. 

Have Fun

Nothing is ever perfect.  The good news is - your excitement and your radiant smile will mask any wedding day flaws!  Today will be over before you know it and you'll be heading off to a dream destination with your new husband in just a few hours.  Dwelling on all the little details that aren't quite right is nothing but a waste of time and energy now - so just have fun and enjoy sharing your happiness with those you love!

Last Updated: December 30, 2008 at 8:15 am
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