I'm doing around $5000 for our 5 year renewal for 200 people.. so no honeymoon.. we'll take a vacation with our kids, but that's seperate money..
my invites $16
the reception (ceremony at site, outside) $3500
the JOP who did our wedding $175
the dj (my husbands cousin) $200
the photog (family friend who is a pro and just giving us the proofs- love her love her love her) $100
flowers (hot pink roses from Sams) for centerpieces and bouquets (my aunts a florist) $173
vases $59 from (rectangular) Michaels and (squares) Dollar Tree
favors.. undecided.. candy buffet? going to start seeing what the candy sale prices are after all the holidays or koozies, $144
candles (candles4less) tealights and holders 80.97
rings (getting them engraved) $50
cake (my mom makes them) free
transportation (my husband is the GM at a car dealership, so we're just borrowing some nice fancy things from them) free
I love having huge families anyways, but this just adds to the love.. they're awesome