DH and I made a list of the what we would like to have in a house - this is different from what we need (certain square footage, amount of BR, BA, etc.) Our "want" list reads like the list you posted above:
- new appliances
- hardwood floors and real tile (or at least new carpet)
- finished basement
- granite or other high end countertops
- fenced yard (only because we have a dog)
- other backyard features: deck/patio, shed
There are other "wants," but they're pretty hard to add to a pre-existing house. We desperately want a fireplace and a master suite with a walk-in closet, but if homes don't come with those, it takes some major work to install.