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10/12/2012 at 06:44 am

76 days left until the wedding and I am seriously freaking and panicking!! :( I'm so afraid I won't get everything done. I keep having nightmares about everything going wrong. And I have no time. When am I supposed to get all these things done?????? :((

10/12/2012 at 06:46 am

You've got plenty of time! Just do a little each week! You made to do lists right? :) Slowly check them off and *breathe*!

10/12/2012 at 06:48 am

You'd be surprised how much you can get done in that time!! People have planned entire weddings in a month before!! You can do it!! Just relax and take it one step at a time, I promise it will work out!!

 

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10/12/2012 at 06:51 am

You've done a lot of planning and I know how stressful it can be, especially when you realize time is slipping away...just breath and don't loose sight of what the day is REALLY about....it's not about pretty flowers and stepford perfect bridal parties...although, those things are nice and we all wish everything will be flawless, this day is about you and you FI and your love for each other. So if you don't get EVERY little last detail done, its ok...just role with it and don't let it ruin you BIG DAY =)

by the way, whats left to do? just curious

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10/12/2012 at 10:32 pm

Make a to-do list.  List everything you need to do.  Put everything on a time line.  What do you need to get done yet this month.  Put October next to the immediate things.  What can you do with a whole month?  Put November next to these.  What are the last minute things that have to wait?  Put December next to these.  Then slowly start checking them off as you get them done.

It's amazing how much this calms things down.

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10/13/2012 at 05:19 am

I was at the same place...1 month before the wedding! There was so much left to do and I couldn't figure out how I'd be able to do all this in 4 littles weeks. But somehow, I made it. So I'm sure everything will be fine. At this point, what works very weel for me was doing list to keep track of what was done and what was left. Good luck!

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10/13/2012 at 05:31 am

All of these ladies have given great advice--make sure you have your checklist and just check stuff off.  I remember a few months before my wedding having a ton of stuff to do, but that was because there is more that needs to be done a few months before the wedding.  Take deep breaths and just handle what you can, and if you don't get everything, it's okay.  If you have yourself, your FH, the officiant, and the license the day of the wedding, you're good to go!

10/14/2012 at 08:17 am

Believe me, it will all work out! Things may even go wrong but the show will still go on. In the end all of those little details you freak out over won't matter! At my wedding the tuxes were wrong, my dress was ripped (before the ceremony)and the table linens were incorrect. It was all still beautiful and everyone had a wonderful time.

10/14/2012 at 02:15 pm

Take a deep breath, and just relax for a second. You will get everything done. I thought I wasnt going to get everything done and I did. You will too! Just try not to let yourself get to overwhelmed! :)

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