Thanks Tami....I didn't take any offense to what you wrote :)

so sorry jackie...

Jackie - I just saw this thread and I'm so so sorry to hear that you too have suffered a miscarriage.  It's just not fair.  *hugs*  I think you should take some time to grieve and find some measure of peace in yourself before you try again.  For me it was an easy decision that has come with moments of "am I sure I want to do this AGAIN?", but I also think that my mc coming so soon made it somewhat easier then this probably is for you.  I just want you to know that I'm thinking and praying for you and your OH and we'll be here supporting you whatever decision you make.  

*hugs hugs hugs*