how do you guys argue / bicker / discuss / fight?

dh and i are working towards not having ww294850428958912 when we fight...  our normal style is to just completely go nuts and let everything out - cussing, included

then we separate and go in our separate corners

then after a few hours of alone time, we can come back and discuss without being @ssholes to each other...

during the initial heat - we have an underlying understanding that nothing we say in those 20 minutes or so are to be taken to heart...

we dont fight that often - in the almost 4 years we've been together - we've only fought maybe 4 times...

D1rty- I could have written that about my husband and I! We do the exact same thing! I am trying not curse so much and not completely freak out!

llol our fighting style is the exact same d1rty......its always over the silliest things though!

katy--> right?? isnt always over the silliest thigns?  LOL!!!

our last fight was over open bar - like almost a year ago - he was so mad at me and annoyed by me he screamed like a little girl "oooo mmmm gggg - stfu - your voice makes me want to scratch all my skin off"

LOL!!!

I like to get it all out in an explosive mess... DH rarely gets uppidy or angry... which usually gets me even more pissed off...  I try to get him mad but it almost never works.  IDIOT!  Sometimes when the stars are aligned we both argue/yell/swear/etc...
Sometimes it is necessary, trust me.

We have never had a big fight, but we have stupid little arguments a lot.  No yelling though.  Just frustration and lots of sarcasm and then we take some alone time.  We need to work on this.  :)

DH never yells .... Im a yeller ....Most of our disagreements are done conversation style -  but when Im really fired up I blow up .... then I say a bunch of useless unneccessary shit ... half of which does not pertain to the situation at hand and probobly happened 5 years ago .... then 3 minutes later Im over it and I expect everything to go on as if I never had that outburst :)

BrideinNovember, we're like that too. I'm the one who can get explosive, but he always remains calm and cool. I don't think I've ever seen him explode.

when we do..i dont do any effort.i just kep quiet..he wil do the first move..lol.we usually end up dtd.