Do you invite the baby mama to the wedding? (Her kids are in the wedding) No I don't have a relationship with her, I barely talk to her!

Don't do it then! No relationship with her, then you don't know how she will react. Did you ask your fi?

Don't do it! You want people to be there who are joyous for you and your husband to be not some random girl who is thinking bad thoughts while you're getting married. You may think that it's showing the kids that everything is okay but in actuality there's really no difference! Please reconsider, I know I did!

heck to the no!

if you don't talk to her no need to bother.  you and your FI are moving forward so it is no need to bring the past into your future.  it shouldn't even be an option, unless you were actual friends with her.

I did.  Both my ex husband and his wife and also my ex's baby mama.  Neither came but they cant say they werent invited.  I was sure baby mama was going to come and show her a**

Well my fiance' asked me if she was invited, my first reaction was NO!  I find it awkward because when she found out we were engaged she asked him why me and not her?  Hmmm! To me red lights started to flash! 

Heck no! why me and not her? Enough said, don't bother! She sounds jealous.

I actually brought the idea up to FH and he quickly declined. He said that she wasnt worth the expense or the hassle of dealing with. So I guess he would know better than I would so she was NOT included on our guest list. Looking back, I dont think I'd want to spend the $104 for her plate of food anyhow.

Since you're not close to her then I don't see why she needs to be included. Also as someone mentioned, based on her comment to your FI, she's probably resentful of you. You don't need any negative energy on your special day!

NO!!!! According to Regal: you dont need that negativity on that day!