I am only doing a stereotypical GNO two days before the wedding. My bridal party is very spread out (TX, AZ, NM, CA, and Korea). So they are all putting major expense into coming for my wedding. I thought it would be easier for them to take an extra day off of work than take a day off and travel somewhere for the weekend. I am really jealous of the bigger trips, but felt like I needed to take care of my people! I am told that there are some good surprise ideas flying around for that night, though!