Again... I don't know where in PA you where thinking... but there are some small estate homes in Center City Philadelphia that have outdoor gardens, however they will only cater to smaller parties
Physick House
Powel House
Morris House Hotel (I love these pics)
Kimmel Center of the Preforming Arts (If you have a large party the roof is awesome)
Colonial Dames
If you are looking for something unique I would try the Fuel House, National Constitution Center, the Franklin Institute.
http://web.mac.com/jlyaron/FUELhouse/Welcome.html
Also go to Party Space to check out PA sites:
http://partyspace.com/philadelphia_weddings/reception_sites/by_location/default.asp?st=Philadelphia%20County