Girl I know!!!! Let it all out! :) It sucks, it really does. TOTALLY inconvenient ;)
Take a deep breath when dealing with all those questions from family/friends. They're just excited for you and really don't *get* what a wedding takes, let alone handling it while also being in the military.
You definitely have a lot going on! You do have a lot of time before your wedding to figure it all out, and trust me, I don't know how, but things end up getting done! Maybe don't worry so much about wedding details and get the life stuff
figured out first?? :) You can do it!