Does anyone find themselves getting sexually fustrated no matter how much you play around yourself it's never as good as with your other half?

Figured it would be good to offer coping stratagies and ideas to help us get throught it

I use to be a long distance relationship for years! It doesn't feel at all as good as he does! I just finally had to make myself try to forget about DTD and keep me occupied with some other thing! 

I used to be in a long distance relationship too...nothing is ever better than the real thing!!  Phone sex helps....but not really :(

ughh 2.5 years of once-a-month sex, it was terrible!

we did the whole phone-sex thing, and i always sent him sexy pics of me :) i used to plan out my lingerie weeks in advance of us visiting each other, that helped me stay focused, but man it sucks!

It does although you're right it gives you time to plan exciting stuff... Im ordering some red ribbon for a suprise for valentines day :D will be such fun let's just say it involves me wrapping myself up!

Ive been in this relationship for 3 years and nearly 2 months and it goes through it's difficult and easy phases going through a diffucult one at the moment but ill just keep going in the hope that we'll be together everyday some time in the not too distant future :)

Same, we were long distance for 2 years. There was LOTS of phone sex and emailing of pictures for sure.