Ceremony Sand wording

I have a 8 year old son who is not my FH's child. I really would like to do a sand ceremony so that my son can be involved too. I want to know if anyone else is considering doing this. How do you go about it to incorporate a child as well. 

I am in the same situation and I think what we will do is pour some of the sand in together..then have my two children pour some in.. either by them selves or help them..

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nxRhu3J9Cak&feature=player_embedded

Found this youtube clip from this site:

http://www.sandceremonyset.com/

Hope it helps

Hope this link helps:

http://www.ehow.com/how_2330462_incorporate-stepchildren-wedding-vows.html