ok so i have to say my hubby is good at splitting it up , if i cook he does the dishes an we flip flop with cleaning other things like the bathroom, so he is good about doing it i dont have to chase him down with the toilet brush lol

but yesterday i asked him to clean the bathroom an i go in today an i swear i cant tell that he cleaned i know he did cuz there is a wet wash cloth that wreaks of bleach but i cant tell , i dont want to be the nagging wife so what would you do

would you ask him to

a- clean it again

b- say nothing an clean it yourself

or

c - say honey come watch me clean the bathroom so i know we are on the same page

tia

I ask him if he really cleaned, if you still don't believe it....clean it yourself.  I'll do, or that what I'll do since I don't like to argue, and when I finish cleaning I say it is clean now because I did it.

LOL i FEEL ya! Dh straightens up and calls it cleaning! maybe you can do it and ask him to HELP you? Like, not ask him to watch you cause that could feel demeaning, kwim? good luck with that!

i hear yah..i do all the household chores..and he does the chores at the backyard and front yard...plus cleaning the cr, the tub..any mechanics work..