Looooong question to answer :)
anyone use them - We do!
what kind - I'm a huge fan of pockets. We've got pockets, All-in-ones, and prefolds/covers. The pockets are hands down my favorites. Among those, my favorite are Fuzzibunz, followed closely by Rumparooz.
Unlike most people, I hate hate hate bum genius!
Don't buy into one brand or type, because once you start diapering you'll learn quickly what you like/don't like. Find a few of each, see what you like, then build your stash from there. I'm in the process of getting rid of some of
the ones I didn't personally care for so I can have more of the ones I love (Fuzzibunz!).
pro's - Better for baby (no chemicals, less diaper rash if you have a good wash routine/detergent, easier to potty train later). . .better for the enviroment (note, studies to the contrary are almost always funded by
disposable diaper companies!), SUPER CUTE!, unlike disposables I find that cloth doesn't leak and can contain some NASTY blowouts.
con's - Getting the wash routine nailed can be hard, microfiber dipes are known for getting stinky if they aren't cared for just right, sometimes you get tired of the routine/run out of diapers (most of the time I LOVE it. .
.but once in a while it gets old), they are bulky, difficult to travel with (of course, you could just use sposies in that case)
how many do you need - 18 to 25
how often do you wash - Every other day. Don't go longer than that, even if you have enough, because they will get really nasty.
how do you wash? I have two wet bags - dirty dipes go into a wetbag in a standard lid can. I pull the whole bag out and put a fresh bag in. Bag of dirties goes to the wash as follows:
a. Short Cold Cycle, no detergent
b. Restart washer, add 1 gallon hot water (we have an HE front loader. . .not necessary if you have a top load), 1/2 a capful of Vaska detergent (or tiny bubbles/charley's/Rockin' Green, Ruby Moon, or Original Tide), and every other wash
gets about 1 ounce of Oxyclean as well. Wash HEAVY load on HOT, cold rinse, EXTRA rinse (this is important).
c. Every other wash when I do the oxyclean, I also run a second hot wash no detergent. So far, I've NEVER had stinky microfiber! ! !
d. Dry on low. Once/month lay each one out in the sun to get rid of stains.
e. Stuff. Repeat :)
HTH!