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07/09/2008 at 01:50 pm

Does anyone know where I purchase these items? During our ceremony, we will be having the cord, veil, and coin exchange, but I'm not quite sure where I can buy these items so if any of you know where I can find these please let me know. TIA!

07/09/2008 at 01:54 pm
07/09/2008 at 01:58 pm

Thanks, I'll be checking out that website.

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07/09/2008 at 02:00 pm

where are you located bride102508? in nyc theres a store called jacks world and i saw the chord for 8 bucks. as far as arras, you can use any old coins or antique looking coins. as for the veil, you could make your own! buy tule and some lace and sew it around the tule. thats what my coworker did for her sisters 100 grand wedding and you couldnt tell the difference!

07/09/2008 at 02:04 pm

Hmm...wow what a way to save money.  I wish I could go to nyc, but I'm in Orange County.  I was thinking about the same thing for the coins, but I'm trying to find something nice to put the coins in. Thanks!

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07/09/2008 at 02:08 pm

I am learning all the wedding stuff still ( with 66 days to GO!) whats the viel cord and coins for?

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07/09/2008 at 02:09 pm

try going to huntington park to a bridal shop? the latin culture uses them and i'm sure the bridal shops there carry them.

07/09/2008 at 02:16 pm

Here is one explanation that I got from this website:

http://www.snoopydude.com/wedding/filipinowedding.htm

These ceremonies are usually done in Catholic weddings.

Arrhae or Coin Ceremony: The Priest/Minister then drops 13 pieces of coins (silver or gold) called arras into the Groom's waiting hands, who in turn drops it into the Bride's hands. The Bride then puts her hand above the Groom's then drops the arras into his hands again. The Groom allows the coins to then be dropped into a plate held by an acolyte.

The metal tinkling of the coins being passed from one pair of hands to the other, is a distinctive reminder of the groom's promise to take care of his wife materially. The bride in return, by giving back the coins to his hands, convey that what they both earn become part of each other's. The trickling sound also signifies abundance and success in the couple's joint efforts. The husband gives his material earnings to his wife who manages, saves and invests the money wisely, as basic Filipino tradition dictates.

Veil Ceremony: In the Catholic ceremony, the Priest continues with the nuptial mass until the "Sanctus". When the bell for the Sanctus rings, it is also a signal for the veil sponsors to come up to the altar. In Protestant ceremonies, the Minister explains the veil ceremony to the congregation and this constitutes as the cue for the veil sponsors.

Together, they pin a veil from the groom's shoulders, extending it to cover the bride's head and shoulders. This is symbolic of the groom pledging his strength and protection to his bride - the wife who he promises to take care of, from this day forward.

Cord Ceremony: The Cord Ceremony follows immediately after. The Cord Sponsors come up to where the Bride and Groom are kneeling, and put a figure of eight cord over the veils that are on the heads and shoulders of the Bride and Groom. This cord symbolizes unity and infinity - a love together, forever!

 

07/09/2008 at 02:18 pm

for our arras, my FI & I are collecting 2 coins from all the places we have travelled together, and 1 coin from the country we'll be heading to for our honeymoon (Thailand). just have to shine em all up real good :) HTH.

 

07/09/2008 at 03:08 pm

if you're the superstitious type... be sure the coins are real silver or gold.  it's considered bad luck if they're not. sorry this probably doesn't help!

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