Okay, so my cousin just got engaged and I was THINKING of telling his fiancee about PW... but then she would know I am secretly planning... UGH... Should I tell her about this AMAZING site??? or keep it a secret?

Ok So I have the same dilemma, FI and I have mutal friends that just got engaged and I was thinking of telling her about it, but I didn't want them to know I've been secretly planning as well...So maybe you can use the excuse like a girl at your job is always talking about this one site.... But then there's always the chance of her becoming a member and seeing your profile anyway!

Maybe since they've never heard of it, if you told them about it, they would only look at it for picture ideas and such? Like hopefully they wouldn't explore around too much and find you out! hehe Otherwise, depending on your relationships with your cousin and friend, maybe they wouldn't be weirded out by knowing about your planning anyway. Plus, they could always find out about the site anyway on their own or from someone else.