The knot (sorry) says:
"1. Will the consultant commit to your budget and not push you in the direction of things you simply can't afford?
2. Will the consultant devise a master plan mapping out all the little details, from announcement to zebra-striped decor? (This will clue you in to organizational prowess and a willingness to keep you in the loop on every matter
imaginable.)
3. Can the consultant name the best and most original locations in your area (that would be suitable to your wedding size, style, and budget)?
4. Is the consultant familiar with the best florists, photographers, caterers, bands, and DJs in your price range? Can he/she explain their strongpoints to you briefly? (Ask yourself: Does the consultant seem both knowledgeable and
passionate?)
5. Can the consultant score you some discounts with any vendors? (Consultants bring volume to favored vendors; often they'll reciprocate by slashing prices or throwing in extras.)
6. Will the consultant read over the vendor contracts for you? What are some common traps to look out for?
7. Can the consultant create a timeline that tells everyone involved in the planning process -- vendors, members of the wedding party, bride/groom, and families -- what to do and when to do it? How will she/he make sure that everyone sticks to
the schedule?
8. Will the consultant handle the invitations, from wording and ordering to the addressing and mailing?
9. Can the consultant counsel you on etiquette matters and alert you to hot trends on the wedding horizon?
10. Will the consultant coordinate delivery, arrival, and setup times with photographer, florist, musicians, caterer/banquet manager, et al?
11. For the day of the wedding, will the consultant be willing to oversee the entire event by supervising vendors, troubleshooting emergencies, and soothing nerves? Can she/he share any anecdotes that required performing above and beyond the
call of duty?
12. Will the consultant be willing to step in as your advocate, conveying your visions and desires to vendors when you don't feel up to the task?
13. Will the consultant help plan and book your honeymoon?
Knot Note:
Remember that the consultant should have plenty of questions for you too, in an effort to determine your wishes, needs, level of maintenance, budget, scope of imagination, and more. You're both trying to assess each other and how well
you'll work together. The consultant will probably initiate discussions -- take this time to consider manner, personality, confidence, warmth, whatever you're looking for. Whomever you enlist, do not hire a consultant who doesn't want to
listen, is bossy, tries to convince you of what's best for you, critiques your ideas, has no references, and won't sign a written agreement."
Also you can call the Association of Bridal Consultants (860) 355-0464.
IVillage says
"1. How many weddings has she planned?
2. Can she work within my budget?
3. What is her fee? Is it a flat fee, a percentage of the wedding, an hourly rate, etc.?
4. What is included in her fee -- all phone calls,
meetings, e-mails, etc.?
5. Does she get a kickback from vendors?
6. Does she understand my vision?
7. Will she make a checklist of all the items I need to accomplish?
8. Will she create a timeline for
the wedding day?
9. Does she have an assistant who will work with her at my wedding?
10. Can she recommend vendors who fit my budget and style?
11. What will she take care of -- finding vendors? Invitations? Favors?
12. Can she get me discounts with vendors?
13. Will she review vendor contracts with me?
14. Can she help me with etiquette issues that may arise?<!--r-->
15. Has she planned a wedding at my location before?
16. Is she planning other weddings on the same day or
weekend as mine?
17. Can she help me plan the rehearsal dinner, post-wedding brunch or shower? Is there an additional cost for these parties?
18. Will she coordinate with all the vendors the day of the wedding -- handling all
deliveries and overseeing the set-up?
19. Is planning weddings her full-time job?
20. Who will take over for her if for any reason she can't be at my wedding?
21. Can I see pictures from weddings she's planned?
22. What will she wear to my wedding?
23. How accessible is she? How often does she expect to meet with me?
24. Will she help me find my wedding dress and attire for the other members of the bridal party?
25. Has she
worked with any of the vendors I've already hired?
26. Can she run my rehearsal if my officiant can't be there?
27. Does she provide a wedding day emergency kit?
28. If I give her payment envelopes, can she pay each
of my vendors?
29. How much is the deposit I'll need to leave?
30. When is the balance due?
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Hope this helps (sorry it is long)