I Love reading these boards cause I get super motivated to try something and DTD more with FI.  I find it hard though to work it into our life.

One of my New Years resolutions is to DTD more often.  Some women are blessed with high drives, I am not one of them.  Its more work for me.  So my challenge for myself and FI is to DTD 3x a week (currently we are lucky if we get 1x).

One night is about him, one night about me and one night about each.  This give me a chance to hone my skills and get comfortable(weight gain) with thiswhole thing.

So my question is,what is your favorite thing to do and get done? Also what could we do on "our" night???

That is a great idea!!!! I know in the last few yrs my drive has seriously deteriorated :(

it's a scientific fact that the more sex you have, the more you want it and the less you have it, the less you want it........so I'm sure once you get that ball rolling it will take on momentum all on it's own! Good for you for making the effort

eh Odessa, I don't know how scientific that is...we don't do it as much as I want it, and I still want it just as much as I did when we first met!

I find it very hard to keep up with FIs sex drive, I am 7 years older than him, and he is like a rabbit...we could just finish up, and he is ready to do it again 3 minutes later, while I am still huffing and puffing...I try to give it to him 3 times a week, and a quickie sometime during the week, it is not uncommon for him to trap me somewhere and "get in and get out" ...

Ok I would love to do this, but is it normal that I can only have sex maybe twice a week before it gets so painful. If I have sex too close together and I don't have time to recover I just get super suuuuper sore. 

I usually have a seriously high sex drive, but since i have been planning this wedding the only thing going through my head is the money being spent on this wedding. Hopefully things will be back to normal Saturday night!

Last New Year's we each told each other a resolution we would make for the other in the DTD dept.  Mine was for him to go down more often and his was for me to try different positions.  We both kept our resolutions and it was a good year.  

As for your other question...I'm all about "downtown".  I love doing it and I love getting it :)

@Sofie...by "scientific" I mean they have done studies on the subject that have proven it to be generally true for most people...but there's always the exception! Good for you girl ;)

I find that I fell tired but once we get going I am happy I did.  Its like exercise, you have to get your butt of the couch,once you do your glad you did.  :)