So why is it that people who are in the wedding party and people who are not in it wait til a few weeks before the wedding to more or less let you know that they are not entirely supportive?

Fuck them and fuck their cold black hearts.

B/c they are catty and jealous. Do not let them spoil your day, just bc they arent having one of their own!

Because even though you love them...sometimes people just suck!

try having that done to you at your rehearsal dinner.  yeah, some people will never be happy or supportive of you.  it isn't important b/c if it was they wouldn't wait til the last minute to tell you!  jealousy is a sickness!  enjoy the remaining days and know that you are marrying the man of your dreams!

Ugh, at your rehearsal dinner?! Wow that's just plain foul. The more i'm on PW the more i find that this is super common! I probably won't talk to alot of his friends when it's over for quite some time.

Keturah - That freaken sucks..some people can be such a$$holes...I'm sorry you're experiencing this... :'( From my experience there's a lot of people out there who just don't want to see happy people....at least after this drama you'll know who your TRUE supportive friends are..

Bump them! Don't worry about their ridiculousness! Concern yourself with the love that you and FI have and then one day soon you will be united and together forever. The ones who aren't supportive of you are fake and can't figure out what else to do with their time other than be in your business! Forget 'em!

I am so sorry to hear!!!!!!