I loved this KB - "In the end, we are raising children.  That turn into adults.  That we wish to lead happy, beautiful lives.  If we lose sight of that, then I think we lose sight of what this is all about." 

I can honestly tell you ladies that I am happy no matter what however I do have hopes of experiencing a boy and girl but we don't know yet what's in store for us. DH insists our cupcake is a girl. All the old wives tales signs point to girl - so I guess we'll see. However we're not even discussing names or nursery themes until we know the gender. At this time thought I'm just trying to enjoy each day and take it all in. 

@kblove - your response was like song lyrics. So well said & so very true!