Okay, so I have been trying not to log on as often because the more I am on here the more I want to be engaged. I feel silly sometimes planning before there is a ring. Even tonight I feel like there is a weight on my heart... WHAT'S TAKING SO LONG!? I want to shout it from the roof tops...

Anyone else feeling this way?

OMG yes!!!!!!!!!!!   FI and I are technically engaged, I have a ring, but its not a diamond engagement ring. We planned on eloping in 2008, but other things came up and we had to cancel our trip. Now we've decided to have the wedding instead of eloping. I found the ring I wanted and I'm impatiently waiting for it! I asked him a month ago about it and all he said was "The wheels are turning." What wheels??? Where are they going?? Ugh! This darn economy! FI lost his business and had to start at the bottom of a new company. So I cant push him about it, because I feel bad asking. 

Ok i'm done venting!  Sorry. hahah

I totally get how you feel! The one thing that is helping my patience a bit is that I know 100% that he wants to marry me and wants to propose soon, but those puppies are expensive!! haha (Engagement rings)

We picked mine out together and I know how much it is costing him. He didn't want to finance it, so he put it on lay-away and has been making payments on it. So I understand because he is being responsible and not charging it or putting his entire paycheques towards it leaving him with no spending money. lol

But yeah, I am still impatient. And I am really hoping for it to happen while we are away in Vegas & LA. But I think he knows that so he probably won't, because he also knows I want to be suprised! This really sucks!!!! lol

arghhh at least you ladies know it will be soon! Sean is still in training (which will probably be another year til he's done) and we already talked about how he doesn't want to propose until the stress of training is over so he can focus on our planning, etc.

arghhh so i've had to step back and try and forget about it :( but, i will be very frustrated if more than 6 months goes by after he's done training and i don't have a ring on my finger yet.

i know that time will come, but i'm just tired of waiting dammit! ohhhhh wellllllll

I tried on engagement rings with him on black friday.  He has a friend who designs rings for Tiffanys so we went to the store to check some of them out and my hand was shaking putting rings on.  Every day I waste time looking at bridal sites even though there's no ring yet and I cannot wait.  He thinks it's cute and hopes that it means everything will be planned by the time he pops the question (he hints it's the springtime but that's all I know......talk about getting anxious)

I use to be a lady in waiting and I understand exactly how you feel! It drove me crazy waiting for him. It seemed like everyone around me was getting engaged (in a 3 month time period 12 people that I knew got engaged) and I was no where closer to it then when we first started dating. I was starting to think that he would never ask me but it eventually did. I don't think it is silly to start planning. I did and it got a lot of the details out of the way and so when I really started planning it was easier on me.

OMG. I sooo know how you feel. I feel as though EVERYONE is getting engaged around me (even my hairdresser and my beauty therapist got engaged) I seriously feel like im loosing patience! I don't even know why coz we are living together and it's not like he's going anywhere! I just feel so left out and i mean what is he waiting for??!! Sorry for the vent, im just feeling it today even worse than ever. Had to plan a Hens party yesterday for my bff!

Okay i feel a bit better now ;-)

I totally know how you feel. I've also tried to stay away from anything weddings. But I find myself bored and end up right back logged in. I'm also like wtf  is he waiting for. I mean when his friend proposed to his girl in december I almost lost it. Even though I knew it was coming it hit me really hard. To be honest I don't think I can attend another wedding. They have decide on dec of this yr. I think I'm not going to go to this one. Because I barely made it through the last one and I was a bridesmaid and that wedding. Not to mention last yr he said he was going to propose on my b-day and now its another story. I know we are buying a house, but I kinda feel like he should have his ring money put to the side since his had alot of time to save. Oh anyway vent is over. Just really really understand!

I think we are all in the same boat here....Mine has to finish his thesis first in order to plan our future ahead....Bt i cant help bt look at engagement ringss,wedding dresses etc..and then 2 of his best friends are engaged making their wedding plans so yeah! iam there with u guys.....Bt they say the more u wait the better it will be...right?! i Hope so :)