Khill, I'm in a similar situation as you. My colors are red, chocolate, and ivory. BM's will be wearing chocolate brown with red accents. FI insists on wearing black tuxes. I'm fine with it, its just been a bit
challenging finding the right accessories to tie it all together. Just like Beatie, my FI will be wearing black tux with ivory vest and tie in paisley to tie coordinate with my gown. GM will be wearing chocolate vests and red/brown
paisley tie.