I know it's only been a little over four months for us, but DH has changed, and it's not bad, really, it could be worse. He can't seem to tell me no about anything but also he has gotten soft with telling others NO AS WELL! Since we have been married, now he seems to want to a lot of couple things. I love double dating or having friends over to the house for dinner, but it has been ridiculous lately! Sunday is supposed to be our relaxation day but for the past month or so, there has been someone at our house for dinner or we are going to dinner with someone else! He will tell them first and then ask me second. How can I say no when he has already told them yes and make me look like the bad guy? Everytime he tells someone about plans we made, they want to pal along and instead of him saying no, he will tell them yes or say let me call my wife and ask her. Why has he already planned a vacation in May with FOUR OTHER COUPLES???????

Okay, so now your turn! : )

Wow, he sounds like a social butterfly!

I was just reading a little article in Glamour magazine about what actually changes when you get married. It was cute, I liked reading it. There are good and bad things I'm sure! We've only been married 2 months so I'm not so sure yet. I'm pretty much used to it already, but everything is ours not mine and his, like everything! lol.

I cannot think of much that has changed in the past 9 months. I know that I am more comfortable telling him things I get annoyed with as far as my MIL goes (thats a fun relationship...) I think we also are in a transition phase as far as our social calendar goes. We are planning more outings with married/coupled friends vs us going out indiviually with our single friends. We still do it, just not every weekend!

A few things have changed and I am loving the changes so far. :)

• DH has become a lil protective of me (in a cute way not a negative or possessive way) and I find it cute and endearing.
• DH seems to like referring to me as his wife more so than he used to refer to me as his fiance when were engaged. (I love it! And I LOVE referring to him as my husband) ;)
• The shift of us becoming a family unit vs. just a couple
• Like Jess - we go out less but when we do it's with a group or it's with couples.

@Elise - I love the "ours" aspect of our marriage! I didn't feel like that my first go round. That's why I know he is my soulmate! So I will check back with you in a couple of months to see if anything has changed! : )

@MissJess - I love doing things and giving dinner parties, but I also love our "us" time.

@Ashley - Awww! I love all the changes! DH does that to me too! He text me every morning and says Good Morning to my beautiful wife or when he calls he always says Hello Mrs. Young! It is so darn cute when they are protective! I know you are loving it!

we are also 2 months in, and i almost wish something would change so i would feel like we were married! NOTHING has changed. which is fine, because we have a great relationship that functions very well. but i do not feel married. at all. the other night, i told him the was the best boyfriend in the world. haha. i cant get it straight! 

Lol @Kelly! Are you serious? You really don't feel married? Maybe the change is subtle. . .For instance we just love saying husband and wife and say it as often as we can! Lol. And hey, if it's not broke, don't fix it!

I can't tell WHAT is changed, but I definitly feel it. It's positive and feel so good. I guess it's like Ashley said about being a family unit instead of just a couple. I really love being married and it's like my life is now evolving around DH, as if he was my gravity center, instead of my parents and sisters.

Awww Pascale. . .I love it! I love being married too!

i think it doesnt feel different to me, because we have a daughter. so i have pretty much been called mrs benson from the time she was born by her doctors, and other people *assuming* we were married. what i do love though, is that my name is officially changed so i dont have to correct people any more! haha. i think it would be different if we werent parents, but for the past 3 years, its pretty much been like we were already married, just not legally!