So, DH and I got into a stupid arguement last night about me not giving him blow jobs. 

Let me preface this by saying that I have a pretty bad case of TMJ (lockjaw), so BJs have never been my favorite thing, but I HAVE done them because I know that he likes it a lot...but over the last year or so, my jaw has gotten progressively worse and it is really uncomfortable for me. 

DH felt bad for bringing it up, because he knows that it really isn't my "fault"...but he says he just misses them.

I guess my biggest problem is that I feel like he wants me to keep going FOREVER...after a few minutes, I am in serious pain and then I don't even want to DTD anymore!!

Any suggestions ladies??

Wow... That's seriously frustrating for you two... I have NO idea... I know that's not heat you'd like to hear... Best of luck... I'm sorry... Maybe don't get too vigorous initially then maybe you'd jaw won't hurt as quickly? That's my best advice sorry :(

do you use your hand with it, does he really expect you to go until he goes?

i would say take breaks an just use your tongue i dont know sorry

thats a sticky situation i know how much men love that

I have a similar situation and now I just do it as a form of foreplay.  I am more willing to try different method and mix it up so I rotate between just tongue, tongue and hand, and just mouth.  But now it always leads to actual intercourse.  Now he says he almost loves it better and I look forward to it now!

You could just focus on the tip? That way you dont have to over extend your jaw. I have a small mouth, so I know what you mean about pain, also have had some jaw problems before. The tip is also a very exciting spot, focus on that plus use your hands!

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Symone, I feel your pain...literally. TMJ is the worst :-( It also takes my FI FOREVER sometimes, and at a certain point the mood is lost for me, too. We had to have a pretty blunt conversation about it a couple months ago, and he agreed to hurry it up or be understanding if I quit after 30 minutes!! It has been a lot better since then...

30 minutes!!!  No way!!  LOL

Ok i have a similar issue.  My jaw doesnt lock but I do have TMJ and it can be very painful having your mouth open that long.  I use my hand a lot and only really 'suck hard' when he is about to cum. Also dont use your tongue a lot until he is almost there, it helps relax the muscles in your jaw!

I have the same situation. This sounds bad but he is just too big for my small mouth!

30 minutes?!?  OMG, I couldn't get with that!  I also use a combo approach, and focus on the tip.  We were just talking about this the other night and my FI said he likes when I focus on the tip and deal with the rest with my hand.  But damn, you couldn't get me to do it for 30 minutes - your hubby is a lucky man!