Prayers for you and yours during this rough time! I'm sure it will all work out for the best in the end, and being a 2009 bride is going to be just as wonderful. And, I'm a May 30, 2009 bride as well, so you're in good company. :)
I'm sorry you have to postpone. I ended up having to reluctantly postpone my wedding too and even though it was hard at first, it ended up working out better in the long run. I hope you will have the same feeling.