Hawaii. Which island is for relaxing??

Im looking for relaxation. So which island should I go??  Thanks =)

i've heard that kauai is very remote and relaxing, but i've never been. we went to maui and i thought it was very relaxing as well. we spent a lot of time at the resort on the beach. 

kaui or lanai

Just not Oahu... I've been, and it's beautiful! But it's much more like the mainland as opposed to an island getaway!

Kauai is beautiful. Its where we got engaged. I would recommend staying in the princeville area. It has the small island feel and has enough fun tourist stuff to do but no real big city atmosphere.

Kaui is beautiful and relaxing...not as much as a nightlife as maui or oahu. Maui is a good inbetween.

Kauai hands down.  There is honestly nothing else on the island to do but relax.  So if you want some sort of nightlife, I wouldn't recommend it.  Oahu is completely touristy and seemingly not what you are looking for.  Maui I've heard is a nice mix but I've never been.

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I've only been to Oahu.  I stayed outside Honolulu (in Kailua), and it was lovely.  Just beach and cocktails. (You would be doing more rent-a-house or rent-a-condo than getting a hotel room, though.)

My friends LOVE Maui.  And Kaui seem amazing.

My aunt who goes every year recommends Maui for relaxation :)