So he told me he's ready for a baby about a week ago! This is a big deal since I've been ready for years. Tonight was our 1st time since he said he was ready and he pulled out. ???? Huh? Did he freak out? Forget what we talked about earlier this week? I'm a little sad and confused right now.

Well I can understand why you'd be confused :(

Have you asked him about it?  I would talk to him before you get too worked up.  Maybe he really did forget, especially if you have used that method before.. he could've just forgotten in the moment.  But if there is an underlying issue, like him not being ready, you definitely want to discuss it and make sure you're both on the same page.

Good luck!

Yes I will. It just suprised me.

Sooo did you ask him???

-->Fill us in girl!!

Habit maybe?

My husband did the first time after we agreed to ttc. I openly just asked why, he said it was just such a habit that he just did out of instinct. I guess you go so long preventing that it's hard to flip your whole mindset when you're in the heat of the moment .

I would ask him.  Maybe he was still a little scared.  It is a big change you know.  We were going to start in 2011 and then he told me he didn't want them, and last week he told me he wants them.