Well, you're definitely in the right group! And having a realtor and contractor for parents is amazing!
I would suggest starting with your pre-approval and then setting your own limit from there. DH and I were approved for a certain amount, but we knew that we personally wouldn't be comfortable spending that much, so we actually dropped our own
figure to a lesser amount.
I would also suggest making three lists:
- Things you absolutely must have in a house
- Things that would be nice but aren't mandatory
- Things you absolutely do not want
Consider things like location, square footage, yard space, rooms, and features.
Finally, run a credit report right away! You are not penalized for checking your own credit, and Experian, Trans Union, and Equifax will each run a free report once a year for you. This way you can see any areas that might be pulling your credit
score down - mistakes with accounts, a forgotten credit card with a small balance, etc. Try to fix anything you can to get the highest score possible - this will give you the best interest rates.
HTH!