Help! Dress my GM for me :)

So now Im confused on what the GM (4), ushers (2), and escorts (My 2 brothers  walking my mom down the aisle) should wear?

The original plan was to have my GM in ALL black~ I know weird but I LOVE it.  Then when my FI tried it on at the tux shop I thought with all 4 of them, it may be tooooo much?

My FI will wear this (all black w/ ivory tie)

(I know hes a gobber :) )

My dad will wear something like this: 

Which one for the GM?

1.

or 2.

I like #2.  My friend had that same look in Texas and it looked really nice.

hahahaha, I love the last picture!! I like the pink contrast on the black for the GM.

Then I also have to figure out what our ushers and my 2 brothers will wear???

so confused on the combinations....

As of now FI doesn't want to wear a vest, so now its just the tie??

I like #2 also, what color is your bouquet and your bm's bouquets going to be?

Were doing a mix of reds and a few BLACK calla lillies haha This will soooo look like a funeral haha but I just love the look I can't help it :) 

I like the colored tie!

Since my brothers are just walking my mom down the aisle, I just want them to look nice in general (They never wear suits) so I was thinking something like this?

They are BOTH fair skinned, so I think a white shirt would be better, with like a champagne tie?

HMM....do you have a pic of your red callas??  That's what i'm wanting for my bouquet...

i think the two ushers should wear the red ties, and the groomsmen should wear black ties...

Sorry Jackieg, I ment a mix of red flowers/roses WITH black calla lillies :)

So we have one for ALL black haha  My sister/ MOH likes all black too, we think it may look too "promy" with a red tie?

ahhh so confused haha