oh my tx. first, try to be logical (we can easily make decisions based on emotions..which is not good). he should totally find out how much he'd get paid. thats first and foremost the most important thing. next research how safe that country is
and if the company provides security and an easy access escape plan. you will be surprised at the perks that come w/ working for a private company in an area that's considered volatile. you get paid A LOT and get great security and live like kings
while there.
my friend had to move to INDIA with her husband for three years while he was a reporter for Reuters. he was just a REPORTER and they lived like KINGS. mercedes chauffer, cook, cleaner, dog nanny (yes, dog nanny) she hobnobbed with the rich
and famous in India and they didnt have to pay for a thing. they were able to save up his nice salary for when they returned to america.
so think about it, if your hubby will get paid a lot and everything will be included (housing, food, security), this will be a wonderful opprotunity for you! just put up with it for a couple of years until you move back with lots of money and a
cool experience!