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I am so sorry you are dealing with this! I think right now you should just focus on yourself and your wedding. You can be there for your sister but not to the point where she takes advantage. No one is going to care as much about your wedding as you and your FI. It's sad but true! On the bright side, at least you've found PW for ideas, support and help in the planning process! Best wishes to you, I hope everything works out in your favor.

thank you so much!!

Well said Melly! 

So sorry that you are going through this genevaandscott ( love the name Geneva BTW) .

Geneva.......get your booty on PW more often!!!  There are tons of women who will be so excited to hear about your plans and help as much as we can!!!

I'm sorry this is happening to you.  Have you seen 27 dresses yet? It's a movie and she has the same little sister as you do in that movie!!!

HUGS!!!  I hope things get better.