When you and your guy DTD is there usually foreplay involved? Or does he say "let's do it" and you all ready to go? I believe woman work more off of emotions....I know I do.

If I just finished folding a load of laundry and he says he wants some I'm going to be like ok?? So what are you going to do to get me in the mood? I don't think he quite understands that my mind does not work the way his does. I need to feel wanted, heck you might need to whisper sweet nothings in my ear, touch my gently and than I may be in the mood. But just saying "Hey lets do it!" is not going to work......

What are your thoughts on this? Do you need a little warm up before DTD or are you ready to go anywhere and anytime?

We usually don't do foreplay, and if we do, it's not much.  It's usually:  kissing, undressing, "scattered" kissing (not lips)/groping, then "the deed".  

forplay... sometimes...  it really just depends on what kind of mood I'm in...  sometimes I don't feel like all the forplay stuff I just want the real thing... lol

If there was NEVER forplay involved though I would get really irritated personally.

I totally hear ya, Melly! My DH is the same way and doesn't understand why I don't get all excited over just hearing the words "let's do it!" Then when we do get a little playtime before hand, it's like 2 minutes worth and I'm still not entirely in the mood.

We spend quite a bit of time on foreplay pretty much every time.  If not then it's painful for me.

Depends on the mood, if I'm tired foreplay is like UGH to me, but if it's early enough, I LOVE it cause that is the only way that my mind gets into it!  Massages make me melt, but not at 11:30pm on a workday dear FI.....

With me, I only initiate if I'm actually horny, but he just asks all the time and if I say yes, he gets horny! We don't usually do much foreplay, we just get into it. But that's okay with me!

If I'm already horny in general I can be good to go pretty quick. Otherwise, I need some warming up

If I'm raring to go, I don't want to waste the time, but 8/10 times I need to be primed, or else it hurts and I don't enjoy myself. Which, surprisingly FI notices. Then I usually get extra after kisses and an extra close cuddle to make up for it.  But if you've ever experienced blue balls for women, sometimes extra cuddles doesn't amount to a hill of beans, LOL.

He usually does what he thinks is enough.  Most times I dont feel like working too much.

If i tell him, he is good and getting me going.