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04/28/2010 at 08:01 pm

When you and your guy DTD is there usually foreplay involved? Or does he say "let's do it" and you all ready to go? I believe woman work more off of emotions....I know I do.

If I just finished folding a load of laundry and he says he wants some I'm going to be like ok?? So what are you going to do to get me in the mood? I don't think he quite understands that my mind does not work the way his does. I need to feel wanted, heck you might need to whisper sweet nothings in my ear, touch my gently and than I may be in the mood. But just saying "Hey lets do it!" is not going to work......

What are your thoughts on this? Do you need a little warm up before DTD or are you ready to go anywhere and anytime?

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04/28/2010 at 09:35 pm

We usually don't do foreplay, and if we do, it's not much.  It's usually:  kissing, undressing, "scattered" kissing (not lips)/groping, then "the deed".  

04/29/2010 at 07:37 am

forplay... sometimes...  it really just depends on what kind of mood I'm in...  sometimes I don't feel like all the forplay stuff I just want the real thing... lol

If there was NEVER forplay involved though I would get really irritated personally.

04/29/2010 at 11:27 am

I totally hear ya, Melly! My DH is the same way and doesn't understand why I don't get all excited over just hearing the words "let's do it!" Then when we do get a little playtime before hand, it's like 2 minutes worth and I'm still not entirely in the mood.

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04/29/2010 at 01:42 pm

We spend quite a bit of time on foreplay pretty much every time.  If not then it's painful for me.

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04/29/2010 at 02:01 pm

Depends on the mood, if I'm tired foreplay is like UGH to me, but if it's early enough, I LOVE it cause that is the only way that my mind gets into it!  Massages make me melt, but not at 11:30pm on a workday dear FI.....

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04/29/2010 at 06:48 pm

With me, I only initiate if I'm actually horny, but he just asks all the time and if I say yes, he gets horny! We don't usually do much foreplay, we just get into it. But that's okay with me!

04/29/2010 at 07:04 pm

If I'm already horny in general I can be good to go pretty quick. Otherwise, I need some warming up

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04/29/2010 at 07:04 pm

If I'm raring to go, I don't want to waste the time, but 8/10 times I need to be primed, or else it hurts and I don't enjoy myself. Which, surprisingly FI notices. Then I usually get extra after kisses and an extra close cuddle to make up for it.  But if you've ever experienced blue balls for women, sometimes extra cuddles doesn't amount to a hill of beans, LOL.

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04/29/2010 at 07:56 pm

He usually does what he thinks is enough.  Most times I dont feel like working too much.

If i tell him, he is good and getting me going.

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