I am already a pw bride who posts often but made up a fake name because im so embarrsted and i dont want my husband to see this. 

I was home working today and got the mail..and in the mail was an already halfed opened package for him.  So inocently i look into and find "Xtend" penis enlargement pills.  I don't know what to think. 

First off, he doesnt NEED them!!  I am happy with that part of his body and alway tell him that.  Now I wonder...is it me? Does he think our sex life is bad, not satisfying or whatever??? 

More so I am hurt that he was going to hide this from me! I am his wife!! This could potentially danger me or him and he coudn't tell me.

So I called him at and he got all mad and embarresed and hung up on me.  I called back again and he screamed at me that he didn't want to talk about it and hung up on me again!!

I am overreacting? Am I thinking its about me when its not? Please help me!! I have been hysterical for the past 15 minutes.  I know all you ladies so well and needed your advice again but just couldn't do it under my usual account.

PLease help...im beside myself

I dont think it's you, I think that maybe he may seem insecure and wanted to take the pills without your knowledge and now that you know it's embarrassing for him.  You have to remember men are very big on their pride and egos and do not want anyone especially the woman of their life to see the insecurities that they have.

i know ur right but he wont even speak to me now..so upset.

I have to say that I don't think that it's you at all...  men are very sensitive about matters like that.  I'm sure he didn't discuss it with you becase he's very self concious about it.

extenz is also for sexual enhancement...  maybe he wanted somethin just to spice things up a bit.  I say give him a little time to cool off about it and I'm sure he'll come to you and talk to you!

thanks!  i think this was strickly penis enlargement though.

I had a neighbor who got breast augmentation- she was gone a few days for surgery and didn't even tell her kids what it was for!  She really wanted it but was so embarrassed about it...people are weird about things like that.  I really wouldn't let this get under your skin.

I think that now you know his reaction when you bring it up, you need to be patient and wait for him to calm down and come to you. The girls above me a right - men are very sensitive about this topic, so unless its discussed on their terms, if at all, they're not going to talk about it. It's a hard situation to be in knowing that he was keeping something so intimate from you, but I am sure that there is a good reason behind this. And next time, no matter how open that package already is, don't look inside!

Ditto everyone else .... Every man I have ever known is sensitive about the "penis size topic" ....  Just like women grow up being told "thin is in"   men grow up feeling like "bigger is better"

THIS HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH YOU!!!!!  ..... You have to know that ...give him some time .... and let him keep this to himself ...he is obviously mortified that you know about it , so I wouldn't try to bring it up again 

((hugs)) ...sorry he isn't talking to you right now and yelled at you :( 

Ditto everyone else. But I just wanted to give you HUGS!!! Men are weird about their size. I guess it's like how women are with their clothes size or weight.

It doesn't matter how big a guy is...he wishes he were bigger.  And it doesn't matter how long he goes...he wishes it were longer.  That's just how guys are.  I'm sure it has nothing to do with his being unsatisfied.

I'm sorry that you are going through this and I'm sorry that he isn't willing to talk about it.