As a couple, how adventurous are you and FI/DH? What are some of the things you have tried?

FI and I have role played and tied each others hands with silk scarves. I have a feeling he wants to try anal (I'm scared!). A friend of mine let her boyfriend um how do you say ... finish himself on her boobs - that makes me feel like a prude! I want to keep things interesting because we'll be together a lot of years, but I'm not sure what is "normal" these days vs things seen in porn.

I definitely agree with you that it's important to keep things interesting! We've been pretty boring lately :( But we've tried numerous things. I still think I'm not very adventerous though! Especially, like you said, compared to porn and stuff like that.

I know all guys want to do anal for some reason. lol. We've done it, I like it too, but it takes some getting used to! It's been awhile since we have though. Handcuffs, dildos-which I found out I was allergic to one of them! Ouch! We haven't done any blindfolding which I think would be cool. "finishing him off" guys like to cum everywhere so the boobs, the face, the hair, lol. Think about what you're comfortable with and try one thing new every once awhile. No need to go crazy right away. :)

We haven never really role played. I don't think our personalities go very well with that-I would probably just crack up trying to role play. haha.

oh I've blindfolded him and he really liked that. he hasn't blindfolded me so maybe I should make him try. lol

we don't hard core role play - no Four Christmases where we pretend to not know each other in a bar. he likes my sexy police woman and sexy student outfit. someone gave us role playing cards and they were too far out for us.

you've let him finish on your face and hair? I guess it is a good excuse to shower together afterward. ;)