Negotiate, negotiate, negotiate.
Oh, also...heavy appetizers only (all night long instead of formal meal). Prob $25 per person instead of $85!
Favors, ordered glass photo coasters that were $1 for two and came with a note in the photo area that said "thanks for making our day picture perfect"...but we turned it into a DIY and put a different photo in each one (Robin don't tell anyone
our secret!). $0.80 each!
DIY Manzanita.
Cupcakes instead of cake. We were quoted $4.50/slice for the cake and then our venue charges a $1.50 cake cutting fee. So we went the cupcake route which is only $1.50/cupcake and no cake cutting fee.
No limo - instead renting a "fancy" car for two days.
Using my Mom's veil as my something old. Cutting it to finger tip or cathedral length and adding beading to the edging.
Decided yesterday to order dyeable shoes in ivory then after the wedding dye them black so I can wear them over and over.
Got rental items (tables, chairs, linens) from a vendor closer geographically to our venue. $40 vs. $150 delivery fee.
Friend (who is a pastor) as officiant.
Friend is DJ.
Friend and cousin doing makeup and hair.
No fancy bridal book made by the photographer....DIY after the wedding with the proofs from the photographer (this was part of the negotiation - he simply makes me a disk of pics instead of spending HOURS/DAYS making the album).
Took up the $19.99 Target BM's dresses.
Postcards instead of cards (less postage and no envelopes).
Dress altered by an independent professional instead of boutique. Also, ordering shoes from boutique b/c they will give me 20% off.
I guess this summary makes me feel like I have worked a lot of deals so far - THANKS! I will have to check in again in a couple months to see if I am still workin it :) P.S. the wedding industry is the place to be...these vendors
make SOOO much $, it's unreal!