Whao, hurley, that's is so horrible! I'm sorry about the family drama... and those are some scary family members to have to deal with... I'm so glad your DH finally saw the light and realized what was going on!!!
As for my wedding bliss, I would have to say it went away right after the hm too. We almost had to go to court with our rental company, one of my bridesmaids was angry with me that I missed her baby shower due being on our hm, and since we
DIY'd everything our house was a complete mess from all of the wedding decor! I still have a bunch of stuff in storage that I've been meaning to sell but have been lazy. Ahh, post wedding was a bummer, but we were trying to concieve at
the same time so I just moved my efforts into that, and tried not to worry about how sad it was that the wedding is over!