Honestly, if you partake in any sexual action now (fingering, etc.), it may already be gone.  When I lost mine, it didn't really hurt.  I mean, it was uncomfortable because you are stretching for him, but it didn't hurt.  I only bled a little bit, and I was sore the next day, but it was not painful.  So excited for you!!

I think that everyone is different.  It all depends on your body.  I have heard horror stories about pain and blood though I have also heard about minimal pain.  For me, there was pain during, a little afterward, some blood and that was it.  I hope for you that it won't be too bad.  BTW, I think that it a beautiful thing that you are waiting until your honeymoon.  Not to be too TMI, but is your FI a virgin too?

For me, it stopped hurting after the first few seconds, and I actually had an orgasm my first time.  When we went to look afterward, there was about one drop of blood left on the sheet.

Yes we both are and no not TMI dw

I just want to say thank you to you all for being willing to share all this, I know how personal it all is.  It is really good to know that everyone is different and it's encouraging me as I was worrying about it. You hear so many different stories you don't know what's true or exaggerated and it's something that people really don't talk about

Thank you all so much :)

It is such a beautiful thing that both of you are waiting until your wedding night.  It makes it so much more special.  I am so glad that we could help.  I just hope that we didn't scare you too much.  :o) 

wow, my first time never hurt at all, i feel very lucky now...

GOOD LUCK lilmissangel...

My first time didn't hurt so much, but I was too dry for it to go smoothly. Just make sure you have lube on hand and make foreplay last until you feel you are ready, not because you feel it's about time you did. Don't expect the world from that first experience, but make sure you enjoy the intimacy!! Love that you both waited; really special.

it hurt the first 3 or 4 times i believe , but i think if i had been more relaxed it would have been different like others said if there is alot of foreplay you should be ok , i would put a towel down the first time 

good luck 

maybe take some advil before hand it may help

It hurt for the first 4 times, but that was mainly because I overanalyze everything so with foreplay it even hurt. The first time I bled afterward and even heard the (pop) sound....that was a ruined great pair of white satin underwear never to be worn again. But eventually after talking to some of my friends and learning to relax like I said after the fourth time it got pleasureable......

Yes it did for me. I was super surprised because I am not very sensitive to pain..... It hurt for about 5 times after that... My DH (he was my boyfriend then) was, however, very patient and did not pressure me into doing it and gave me plenty of time to heal up after the first few times. I think it was super sweet of him considering he was only 16 and very frisky haha ;)

Just use lube and lots of foreplay :)