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07/16/2008 at 05:13 pm

 

If you are having a mass at the wedding she could bring up the gifts to the altar.

Otherwise maybe she could give a toast at the reception?

 

07/16/2008 at 05:13 pm

How about a toast at the reception?  That's what we've asked my FI's sister to do.

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07/16/2008 at 05:15 pm

What about having her stand near your guest book to greet people and make sure they sign it?  She could be the "greeter" :).  I'm having my uncle and his wife stand in the foyer by the wish tree to welcome them, explain what the guests are to do witht he wish tree, etc.

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07/16/2008 at 05:20 pm

or just bite the bullet and ask her to be a birdesmaid (that is what I am doing). FI will be really happy you asked, and she can say no, then you don't have to have her do anything special. I definitely wouldn't put her to work though, like at the guest book. I think that would just make her annoyed with you.

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07/16/2008 at 05:24 pm

hand out programs?

07/16/2008 at 05:29 pm

Maybe you should ask her.  Express that you'd like to include her, but you're not sure what she'd want to do or would be comfortable doing. 

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07/16/2008 at 05:36 pm

Maybe an usher and/or another greeter @ the sign-in table.

07/16/2008 at 05:44 pm

echoing nova here - if you are having a catholic wedding, there are many things she can help with during the offertory.

i agree with nicksnack, if you can - try to see what she'd be comfortable doing. you don't want her to be obliged. HTH.

07/16/2008 at 06:41 pm

If you are having flowers girls you can have her walk the aisle with them. This is what I asked my sister in law to do at my wedding. I loved including her. My other two sisters were bridesmaids and my good friend was MOH. Last minute I realized I really wanted my Sister InLaw to be a part of the wedding too..

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07/16/2008 at 09:23 pm

Hi, I would find some non-demanding way to include her in the ceremony (since she might be quite a distance from you). However, I would caution you to think seriously about including her as a bridesmaid. I did just that and since I don't know them very well, they are not as committed as I had hoped to participating in events and making the wedding process special. Obviously, you have to go with your gut...I thought I did (I thought it was a nice gesture) but I regret it. I think I could have made them feel special without making them bridesmaids and I would be much happier.

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