Hi ladies so Fi and I seem to be getting bored in bed. He is way more spontaneous than I am. He doesn't get turned on by sexy outfits or lingere he calls me old school sexy. Any one have any ideas on how to spice it up? I want to surprise him but I don't know what I could do.

Surprise him when he comes home from work.

Send him an email that describes a fantasy you would like to play out with him.

Do a weekend get away or even just a night and have the room supplied with some wine and some chocolate and strawberries.

Fool around with him in public a little so your not noticed, so when you get home he will take u straight to the bedroom.

We are actually gonna do this on our honeymoon.. I'm going to get dressed in a wig and a differant outfit that I wouldn't be wearing at home.. We are gonna "meet" down at the bar and act like we don't know each other!! I can't wait!!

I'm spicing it up right from the get-go; FH has to work the week after the wedding, and he's a bit bummed about it because he wanted some special time together.  So I'm doing something for him the Monday after the ceremony:

I'll be off, so he'll be at work all day.  I'm doing the typical romantic things--rose petals leading from the front door to the bedroom, music playing, and me in a cute little black number (he's mentioned that he thought black was quite sexy on a woman).  I'll send him text messages throughout the day, and when it's time for him to get off work, I'm sending him a message with a "code" (it was something from when we did our Song of Solomon Bible study that basically means, "Get over here, stud, and enjoy yourself!").  He'll know what it means.  When he gets home, he follows the rose petals, and there I'll be.  Don't know if it will work out, but I hope it will.

toys

cook in nothing but an apron

do it somewhere other then bed

try a crazy new position