I think the best part about being a firefighters wife is the sense of pride I feel for what he does. It takes an extremely special type of person to risk their life everyday for others...to me it's humbling that I've married such a selfless
person.
One of the worst parts would have to be the time we don't see each other. It's a pretty big time commitment...and he is just as devoted to the station as he is to me. I share him with the station and the other firefighters he shifts with
and that can sometimes be hard.
As far as being worried about his safety that used to bother me but I've learned that however much I worry or don't worry isn't going to change what happens to him. I had let go and know that DH knows what he's doing and would never
put himself in a situation he didn't think he could handle. I also have to trust that his crew is just as skilled and knowledgable as DH and when they work as a team and as a unit the likelihood of something happening is
slim.
Above all I love DH and support what makes him happy...and being a firefighter makes him happy. :)