I need advice from my awesome PW girls!

Hi ladies! Okay this is a touchy subject, so I thought who better to get advice from than all of you! When your involved in a situation it's easy for us to let emotions get the best of us, so I figured maybe someone on the outside looking in could help:

Lets say I have this friend. Who is very polite and sweet to our faces but trashes us behind our backs and says they will not be coming to our wedding. The truth is I couldn't care less. It's a silly, selfish reason why they don't want to come...apparently they are unhappy to not have a role in the wedding. It is just a friend, who I've known since childhood...we're just not super close since the last 6 or 7 years and with our bridal party consisting of ALL family and 2 VERY best friends personally, I don't see a big deal. Plus, the guy vs gal ratio would be uneven. AND I was going to have a small role for this person, but when I heard all the trash I was like ummm...NEVERMIND! The problem for me is people in my wedding party are also friendly with this person. So I have a hard time "calling them out" because I don't want to "create waves". Even though I'm a very vocal person!

Do I:

A: Say...sooooo when were you going to tell me to my face that you weren't coming to my wedding? (That way I don't waste my money sending an invite when I don't even want her/him there because of the nasty things being said.

B: Just ignore it and send an invite and pretend my friends didn't tell me, send an invite knowing they won't come so that I gave them the option and I'm keeping the peace with everyone.

I know normally I would tell the person your a 2 faced biotch, but I'm so happy with my life right now I JUST DON'T CARE! People who do that are insecure so it actually makes me feel bad for them.

How would you girls handle it? Sorry this is SO long! Love ya gals!!!! TIA :)

sing the song with me!!  (sung to the tune of "C is for Cookie")

"B is for Beeyotch - that's good enough for me"

dude - seriously i dont know why people wanna show their asses when wedding time or inheritance time rolls around... whatevs - be the bigger person and send her an invite but keep on truckin!!!

I'd do B.  She isn't worth the time and effort that A would take.  And by refusing to get caught up in the drama, you'll come out of this looking good.

hahahhaahhahahaaaaaaaaaaa d1rty! Thanks!I'm a great actress..I guess two can play at the "I'm a FAKE ASS B*tch game"!

love the song! I'll just keep playing it over and over in my head when It starts to piss me off! :)

I second dirty! 

ALRIGHT!!!!!!!!!! Thanks ladies! I was ready to come out with gloves on but your all ABSOLUTELY right! ty ty ty ty! I feel as if a weight has been lifted from my shoulders...I've been thinking a lot lately about what to do! :)

My vote is for "b", let that stay on her conscience, not yours.

Yep, B. Don't stoop to her level either by talking about her with your other friends.

B.

for all the reasons peeps said, and b/c you keep your mutual friends out of the drama. (cuz ya know she's just gonna go back to them and b*tch about why they told you)

I agree with the rest of the girls. B.

She's not worth your energy. Take this as a lesson and know that she is a not a real friend and now you know better. If she doesn't come to your wedding- that's one less person you have to pay for!