Ladies,

I am beyond beyond beyond frustrated!

We want to have a Whimsical Backyard Carnival-ish wedding.

The issues:
1. We need a barn or big open field or even better both!
2. We don't want a vineyard.
3. We don't want it to be overlooking a golf course.
4. As close to St Louis as possible.

Neither one of us is from St Louis so that may be our problem, but all we are asking for is a good place for our wedding. That reflects us and is relaxed and not in the city.

I have looked for hours and literally wasted hours upon hours of days away looking for this. I can't do it anymore. Can anybody help please?!?!

if its out there, I haven't found it.  I've been looking for field/barn area for over a year and I've been living the STL area all my life.  I've even looked into friends and family members that have barns but none of them are big enough.  

That's discouraging :(

I found Overlook Farms

http://www.overlookfarmmo.com

It is very reasonably priced, looks really pretty, has rave reviews, and the little communication I have had with them has been amazing. The only downfall is they are 75 minutes from St Louis in an itty bitty town.

I would check them out if I were you. I'm seriously considering them.